You have 10 steps to help you go through a painless divorce procedure. First, you nee to take full responsibility. Second, you need to learn to forgive. Third, you got to appreciate the good things about your spouse. Fourth, you have to think of happy thoughts and positive perspectives. Fifth, speak positively about the entire process. For more of the steps you check out the infographic below. It should give you helpful ideas on how to go through the whole process.